“People go where they feel most valued. If they don’t feel valued, they go with what is most familiar.” -Amy Larson, amyjalapeno.com
why do people leave? (daily hot! quote)
validation
how pleasing others can be unhealthy (daily hot! quote)
“Do not get drawn into anyone’s drama. Do not stand on your head to please others in a distorted way of soothing their misalignment. It’s better to let those things that are not a match leave your experience.” -Esther and Jerry Hicks, THE ASTONISHING POWER OF EMOTIONS
are you lonely? (daily hot! quote)
“Loneliness turns into Aloneness when you turn inward for answers, acceptance, and validation.” -Amy Larson, amyjalapeno.com
how much of your day is invested in figuring out other people’s lives? (daily hot! quote)
The more interested you are in figuring out what other people should do, the more invested your time (regardless how much you care for them), the less aware you are of your own internal process and progress. “If you love someone, let them figure their stuff on their own. Be there in support as they […]
what is the greatest affliction of mankind (daily hot! quote)
“To doubt, question, explore multiple paths of thought is a sacred privilege. And to give this up so readily, to need confirmation and seek out the sanction of another to validate our own individual thought is a tragedy and the greatest affliction of mankind.” -Amy Larson, amyjalapeno.com
why what others have to offer will never be enough (daily hot! quote)
“The acceptance, love, and validation of another will not assure your receipt of them. These are things that must have permission to enter, things only you can give to and allow within yourself.” -Amy Larson, amyjalapeño.com
the difference between perception and reality (daily hot! quote)
“No one can hide from or wish away the inherent human desire to be validated, loved, to be seen. The perception of one is a seed. The reality of two makes it so.” -Amy Larson, amyjalapeño.com
