“Serenity is possible amidst chaos when uncertainty is the wise companion.” -Amy Larson, amyjalapeno.com
how to handle chaos (daily hot! quote)
trust
Is control your biggest obstacle to happiness? (daily hot! quote)
“In the process of waiting for the perfect moment, for conditions to be exactly what you think they should be, you will miss out on what it is you are waiting for.” -Amy Larson, amyjalapeno.com
why giving another advice is a bad idea (daily hot! quote)
“When others come to you for advice on what they should do with their life, do not give it. Your knowledge and experience is for you and you only. Instead, encourage them to choose that which brings them relief. Persuade them to develop, trust, and nurture their own inner compass, their own knowledge and experience. Any thing else is enabling co-dependence and psychological frailty.” -Amy Larson, amyjalapeno.com
how to have trusting relationships (daily hot! quote)
“Trust is not something that is proven or earned. It is inevitable when you look beyond your own fear and past your over-reactions, when you acknowledge the good in another and appreciate their strengths – those things they believe nobody else can see.” -Amy Larson, amyjalapeno.com
what is getting in the way of you having loyalty, trust, and respect (daily hot! quote)
“A few behaviors does not make an entire human being. If you focus on limited information, you will have a narrow view of a person or situation. If you turn your attention to authenticity (yours and theirs), you both become new, you both step into the light and a world of endless perspectives unfolds. All one has to do is perpetually concede to ignorance of all the facts, because you never will have them all, in any situation, about anyone.” -Amy Larson, amyjalapeno.com
how to get what will make you most happy (daily hot! quote)
“Wait and listen without ego or identification to any ideology or religion, shared grief or group of people. Wait and listen without inner dialog, without attaching previous judgements to what is, without anticipation and expectation. Wait and listen and trust that everything in the past, all that is, and the entirety to come is a part of one whole body of good.” -Amy Larson, amyjalapeno.com
on making choices (daily hot! quote)
“Living in the moment is not leaving a choice up to God or the Universe. Being present is making a choice with great conviction, only you don’t know how it is going to work out. The ‘how’ is what you turn over to a higher power. Indecision is the path of the fearful, the coward, […]
how important is competition in relationships? (daily hot! quote)
“Competition in personal relationships twists reality, deforms character, blots innocence and kindness and trust with its sickness.” -Amy Larson, amyjalapeno.com
how do you know your relationships are healthy? (daily hot! quote)
“If you desire to make your partner jealous, know that you cannot be trusted. Healthy relationships are difficult, because of their simplicity. Trust, love, and respect plainly exist in a wholehearted bond without the need for manipulation or agenda.” -Amy Larson, amyjalapeno.com
can you accommodate the choices of others (daily hot! quote)
“There are relationships where you are seen and allowed to fall into grace, into trust, into a sight that pierces your personal depths of hell. And then there are those connections where all you can do is offer and if they are unable to trust, quietly observe as they walk away.” -Amy Larson, amyjalapeno.com
