“If you find yourself making present choices based on what someone did a decade ago, fearing they will do it again, ignoring your part in instigating it, as well as everything courageous, loving, and trustworthy that they have proved since, well, fear is a priority in your life. And fear is not such a great […]
The people most eager to influence what choice you make are usually the ones least likely to be around in helping you face the consequences of it.
At the heart of every attempt to forgive another is an underlying, ever present, deeper unease we seek to cure – the choice we made to trust the one we are trying to forgive. It is not the person that hurt us we need to forgive, but ourselves for being so vulnerable and allowing them […]
Everyone works through fear in their own way. And what a wonderful world it would be if we didn’t let our inner monologue become apart of our dialog with others. (a little something I did yesterday. *sigh* Dammit.) Everyone needs a safe place to vent. Some of us use journals to work it out. Some […]
No good decision, no “right” one is ever made without the heart. If you think you’re being tested, or if what you’re going through feels like a “test”, then maybe you made the wrong choice. A decision from the heart makes life light and the crappy stuff easier to get through. Or maybe it’s that […]