“There will always be haters; and some may even be in your own family. There is no shame in staying away from toxic people – those that constantly criticize, make fun of, and tear down what you are in the process of building. Some people simply cannot see passed their insecurities and fears. That’s all.” […]
“All insecurities dissolve at the point you value your opinion of yourself above that of others.” -Amy Larson, amyjalapeno.com
“The behaviors of others that ignite your anger, feed your insecurities, and make your fear a solid reality are psychological tools to be used in the refinement of your character.” -Amy Larson, amyjalapeno.com
Being emotionally sliced open and exposed takes courage. Do not justify your vulnerability through a story or use it to connect with others. This makes for toxic relationships. Be uncomfortable. Let fear, insecurities, your ego run wild in the dark unseen and raw. Love them if you can, for reminding you of your humanity. And […]
Obviously, I am being sarcastic. But this is a very real issue for many people. I have been both the instigator of drama and the recipient of it. I have watched loved ones, acquaintances, passers-by assume absolute bullshit about others and me, walking away absolutely certain and unwilling to even investigate facts. And as a […]
Hence, any evil in the world is ignorance and lack of understanding. Those that have grasped this insight are usually the target of such negative emotions as jealousy, anger, and resentment; but ironically, they have the responsibility to understand and be compassionate toward the projectors. Ah, such is life, that once you understand, you must […]
The power of perception. There is the fun side of it that makes everything in life possible. But then there’s the unhealthy, co-dependent relationship with perception – our willingness to accept a narrow view, allowing our imagination to fill in the blanks, so that we can maintain an illusion of safety versus a more authentic […]
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