“Do you use others as an excuse to keep your pain alive? Do you fictionalize, exaggerate, and form conclusions using just your limited perception? Is there always someone to blame for the way you feel? Then you are toxic. Shift your attention inward and be accountable for your experience and you won’t be. It literally […]
“Change and tragedy and pain are so important. They crack you open and bring you back to innocence and unknowing by providing an experience you know nothing about. They are not the only threshold to innocence, but they are highly underused and rarely appreciated.” -Amy Larson, amyjalapeno.com
“If you want safety and certainty, if you want everything to remain the same and never change, you were born into the wrong parallel universe. All good things, all things worth experiencing and every juicy bit of life is preceded by absence, loss, or the destruction of a once good, yet worn out thing.” -Amy […]
“When others come to you for advice on what they should do with their life, do not give it. Your knowledge and experience is for you and you only. Instead, encourage them to choose that which brings them relief. Persuade them to develop, trust, and nurture their own inner compass, their own knowledge and experience. Any thing else is enabling co-dependence and psychological frailty.” -Amy Larson, amyjalapeno.com
“In order to experience the truth of things, you must have a clear mind, be brutally honest with yourself, and make innocence and vulnerability continually accessible; because your perception is always changing and there will always be more to learn and understand and experience.” -Amy Larson, amyjalapeno.com
Every life experience is like a breeze from the Universe that awakens your awareness and shifts your focus either slightly or with hurricane force. When you feel it, move with it. Resistance to it will break you, shatter all of what you think you know into so many pieces that you have to be remade, […]
“There is no guarantee what you teach your children will catch, no promise they will have your same conviction of truths. They may even have a warped perception of you. After all, they don’t have your unique experiences. But it is vitally important for them to prove they can make it on their own. And […]
“The most wonderful thing about life is that we get to experience (and watch) the breath of the Universe move through these inanimate clay bodies to transform our limitations and dullness into exquisite works of art.” -Amy Larson, amyjalapeno.com