“The person entrenched in blame sees only the action against them. But the person of accountability sees their particular choices that led to the chain of events which brought that moment to them.” -Amy Larson, amyjalapeño.com
“The actions and thoughts and words of others are not who you are. You are an influence of grace. You are kindness and answer only to love.” -Amy Larson, amyjalapeño.com
“Anger, blame, and martyrdom are thieves. They steal time, relationships, and respect. Personal accountability is the life-giver, the thing that fills the soul with esteem and repairs it from the inside out.” -Amy Larson, amyjalapeño.com
“You are not the actions of others, nor their words. You are not responsible for their successes, their failures, their daily bliss; but you are for yours. Be accountable. Take on what is yours and trust that others are strong enough to do the same.” -Amy Larson, amyjalapeño.com
“If your time is dictated by others – who you can see, what you can do, and how often – it is only because you do not trust yourself to manage your life, your instincts, your choices. You would rather someone else take the blame if it does not all work out.” -Amy Larson, amyjalapeño.com
“There is a glaring difference between self-analysis and obsessive thinking. The former initiates accountability and moving forward as a new creature. The latter supports a cyclical, egoic masturbation that justifies stagnancy.” -Amy Larson, AmyJalapeño.com
“All of your fears will be proven right when you blame others for your reactions.” -Amy Larson, AmyJalapeño.com
“If you find yourself making present choices based on what someone did a decade ago, fearing they will do it again, ignoring your part in instigating it, as well as everything courageous, loving, and trustworthy that they have proved since, well, fear is a priority in your life. And fear is not such a great […]
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