“Your greatest contribution is not to say something clever or be in control, be on top of every situation. It is not to have everyone around you admire you or do what you say. Your greatest contribution to the world and to those you love would be to perfect silence, to listen, to seek understanding, to not fill in the blanks, to be OK with the blanks; and then from that state act, speak, move.” -Amy Larson, amyjalapeno.com