“Leaning into a relationship is the best measure for determining intention and devotion. If the other person’s loyalty does not match your own (or if yours does not match theirs), you will feel distress within an area of your body: a lump in the throat, a knot in your gut, something will seem off. If there is an alignment of devotion, ease and reciprocation and a graceful push and pull will follow.” -Amy Larson, amyjalapeno.com