The more interested you are in figuring out what other people should do, the more invested your time (regardless how much you care for them), the less aware you are of your own internal process and progress.
“If you love someone, let them figure their stuff on their own. Be there in support as they walk, run, stumble. Don’t smother them with your advice. When they come to you for validation, reach through your own expectations, pierce through their insecurities. Let all that fall away. Celebrate their path, their unique perspective, their truth. Be there for them in love.” -Amy Larson, amyjalapeno.com