“If you find yourself making present choices based on what someone did a decade ago, fearing they will do it again, ignoring your part in instigating it, as well as everything courageous, loving, and trustworthy that they have proved since, well, fear is a priority in your life. And fear is not such a great place to make choices from. Those sort of choices limit, stagnate, constrain until you are grasping for breath, for touch, and for something to make you feel alive.” -AmyJalapeño.com