No good decision, no “right” one is ever made without the heart. If you think you’re being tested, or if what you’re going through feels like a “test”, then maybe you made the wrong choice. A decision from the heart makes life light and the crappy stuff easier to get through.
Or maybe it’s that you are lumping several decisions together and calling them one. We humans tend to lean toward drama; and mixing a choice from the heart with one that isn’t certainly would cause a bit… and a little heartache too (no pun intended).
If you can’t find your heart, stop, drop and roll.
STOP moving. Stand still (or lay down or sit). Close your eyes.
DROP ALL your thoughts and ideas. Keep your mind blank. Wait a bit. Wait for it, wait for it…
ROLL with whatever comes next – the very first thing.
If you’re smiling, you’ve found it. If not… I told you to drop all your thoughts! Gees, people, work with me here! *and a wink*