The integrity of your actions is relative to the person viewing them. You may appear loyal to one person while abandoning another, for example.
It is best to justify your actions based on what brings you the purest joy, the most frequent bliss, the greatest internal ease (which, on occasion, may cause more external difficulty), and not by what is conventionally appropriate or what the mainstream will approve of.
If any choice is to be labeled “right”, it is one with such integrity.