“There is no good reason to gossip about another (whether it is based on fact or not). To do so means you have a big enough ego to think that spite is a divine attribute and that it will never come back to you or the ones you love.” -Amy Larson, amyjalapeno.com
Being hurtful does not serve anyone. Being empathetic, caring, and understanding does. Nobody is perfect; and choices that may seem wrong to one, were the best that could be made in the moment for another.